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Every cancer treatment can cause side effects or changes to your body and how you feel. For many reasons, people do not experience the same side effects even when they are given the same treatment for the same type of cancer. This can make it hard to predict how you will feel during treatment.
Treatment for cancer can take a long time. Regular visits for radiation therapy, systemic therapy, and follow-up appointments after surgery can take up a lot of time and money. It is important to prepare for these demands on your resources and if you have any concerns to discuss them with your health care team.
As you prepare to start cancer treatment, it is normal to fear treatment-related side effects. It may help to know that your health care team will work to prevent and relieve side effects. Doctors call this part of cancer treatment “palliative care" or "supportive care.” It is an important part of your treatment plan, regardless of age or the stage of disease.
Coping with physical side effects
Common physical side effects from each treatment option for vaginal cancer are described in the Types of Treatment section. Learn more about side effects of cancer and its treatment, along with ways to prevent or control them. Changes to your physical health depend on several factors, including the cancer’s stage, the length and dose of treatment, and your general health. These effects may include changes to your sexual health and fertility.
Talk with your health care team regularly about how you are feeling. It is important to let them know about any new side effects or changes in existing side effects. If they know how you are feeling, they can find ways to relieve or manage your side effects to help you feel more comfortable and potentially keep any side effects from worsening.
You may find it helpful to keep track of your side effects so it is easier to explain any changes with your health care team. Learn more about why tracking side effects is helpful.
Sometimes, physical side effects can last after treatment ends. Doctors call these long-term side effects. They call side effects that occur months or years after treatment late effects. Treating long-term side effects and late effects is an important part of survivorship care. Learn more by reading the Follow-up Care section of this guide or talking with your doctor.
Coping with emotional and social effects
You can have emotional and social effects after a cancer diagnosis. This may include dealing with difficult emotions, such as sadness, anxiety, or anger, or managing your stress level. Sometimes, people find it difficult to express how they feel to their loved ones. Some have found that talking to an oncology social worker, counselor, or member of the clergy can help them develop more effective ways of coping and talking about cancer.
You can also find coping strategies for emotional and social effects in a separate section of this website. This section includes many resources for finding support and information to meet your needs.
Coping with the stigma of vaginal cancer
Vaginal cancer, like other cancers that affect the sex organs, can be difficult to discuss. People with many different types of cancer, such as vaginal, cervical, testicular, penile, and vulvar cancers, can experience feelings of embarrassment when discussing these “sensitive” areas of their bodies. However, this should never stop you from requesting and receiving the emotional support you deserve, and your treatment team will never be embarrassed by discussing these issues with you. Your team can help you feel comfortable talking about this with others as well.
Because vaginal cancer is associated with HPV, patients may feel that they will not receive as much support or help from people around them because they believe that others may think that their behavior caused the disease. Although many vaginal cancers are caused by HPV, it is important to remember that most genital HPV infections will not cause cancer. Vaginal cancer can affect anyone.
Living with this stigma can make patients feel guilty, hopeless, embarrassed, ashamed, and isolated. Patients and their families should tell the health care team if they are affected by any of these emotions. There are resources to help those living with vaginal cancer. Some patients feel comfortable discussing their disease and experiences with their doctor, nurse, family, and friends. Other women find help through a support group or other support options.
Coping with the costs of cancer care
Cancer treatment can be expensive. It is often a big source of stress and anxiety for people with cancer and their families. In addition to treatment costs, many people find they have extra, unplanned expenses related to their care. For some people, the high cost of medical care keeps them from following or completing their cancer treatment plan. This can put their health at risk and may lead to higher costs in the future. Patients and their families are encouraged to talk about financial concerns with a member of their health care team. Learn more about managing financial considerations in a separate part of this website.
Caring for a loved one with cancer
Family members and friends often play an important role in taking care of a person with vaginal cancer. This is called being a caregiver. Caregivers can provide physical, practical, and emotional support to the patient, even if they live far away.
Caregivers may have a range of responsibilities on a daily or as-needed basis, including:
Providing support and encouragement
Talking with the health care team
Helping manage symptoms and side effects
Coordinating medical appointments
Providing a ride to and from appointments
Assisting with meals
Helping with household chores
Handling insurance and billing issues
Learn more about caregiving.
Talking with your health care team about side effects
Before starting treatment, talk with your doctor about possible side effects. Ask:
Which side effects are most likely?
When are they likely to happen?
What can we do to prevent or relieve them?
Be sure to tell your health care team about any side effects that happen during treatment and afterward. Tell them even if you do not think the side effects are serious. This discussion should include physical, emotional, social, and financial effects of cancer.
Ask how much care you may need at home and with daily tasks during and after treatment. This can help you make a caregiving plan. Create a caregiving plan with this 1-page fact sheet that includes an action plan to help make caregiving a team effort. This free fact sheet is available as a PDF, so it is easy to print.
Looking for More on How to Track Side Effects?
Cancer.Net offers several resources to help you keep track of your symptoms and side effects. Please note that these links will take you to other sections of Cancer.Net:
Cancer.Net Mobile: The free Cancer.Net mobile app allows you to securely record the time and severity of symptoms and side effects.
ASCO Answers Managing Pain: Get this 36-page booklet about the importance of pain relief that includes a pain tracking sheet to help patients record how pain affects them. The free booklet is available as a PDF, so it is easy to print.
ASCO Answers Fact Sheets: Read 1-page fact sheets on anxiety and depression, constipation, diarrhea and rash that provide a tracking sheet to record details about the side effect. These free fact sheets are available as a PDF, so they are easy to print, fill out, and give to your health care team.
The next section in this guide is Follow-up Care. It explains the importance of checkups after you finish cancer treatment. Use the menu to choose a different section to read in this guide.